When I talk to a couple in the initial stages of their wedding ceremony planning I always ask if they have organised who will be their MC. The MC is the person I will liaise with on the wedding day if there are any issues, and it is also the person who I give the couple’s marriage licence to after the wedding. So when choosing your MC think about the person who you know will not leave the licence on the back seat of the taxi on the way home.
Why have a MC?
A MC will be like a ‘Person Friday’ on your wedding day. They will be the person who will be the point of contact for any guest questions, any vendor questions, and ensure the smooth running of the wedding day. They are not just for the speeches at the wedding reception.
How to choose an MC
- Choose someone who’s personality fits the tone of your wedding/wedding reception. If you want it to be humorous/casual then choose someone who can pull that off, if you’re going for a more formal/traditional vibe then go for someone that way inclined, normally someone a little older.
- Choose someone who feels comfortable speaking to an audience.
- Choose someone who is organised and a good communicator, someone who can keep to your time line, and can communicate to event staff to ensure everything runs smoothly.
- Someone with a can-do attitude, who is going to be OK pitching in to help when needed.
- Someone who either doesn’t drink, can stay sober or can control their drinking, they need to be in control throughout the day/night.
How to be a stellar MC
- Spend some time before the wedding, liaising with the bride and groom to create a time line of the day. It’s a great idea to also be at the wedding rehearsal to make sure you have a good grasp on what’s going to happen. Make sure you know the names of the bridal party, parents, grandparents, it makes it a bit more personal.
- Test the microphone before the reception, and practice using the volume and the acoustics of the space.
- Make sure you are seated near the front so you don’t have to constantly move through the guests to get to the microphone.
- Introduce yourself at the beginning, and a little spiel about how you know the bride and groom.
- Be humorous, but appropriate, remember there will probably be grandparents/and or small children at the reception. No jokes about what happened on the stag night!
- Introduce the speakers, and make sure you actually know who they are before hand, so you’re not aimlessly looking into the crowd after you introduce them.
- Be able to go with the flow, sometimes things don’t always go according to plan, be able to roll with it.
- Communicate with event staff, bride and groom, parents etc. Make sure every one knows what’s going to happen and when.
- Be the point of contact for event staff, you may need to be able to perform last minute errands, if someone forgets something, or you run out of juice etc.
- Stay relatively sober. No one wants to listen to a slurring MC.
- You will be the person to make announcements during the day, family photos, social media requests, when dinner is served, introducing the bride and groom, cutting the cake and the first dance.
- Make sure the guests are aware of the house rules at the beginning of the reception, where the toilets are, smoking etc.
It is an honour to be asked to be a MC, its a big job which can definitely have an impact on a couples wedding day. Think carefully when choosing a MC and think carefully before saying you’ll do it.