All you need is love and a great hen’s night.
Hen’s nights are a rite of passage for a bride. They can also be very loud, expensive and boozy, which is great if that’s what the bride wants, but can be absolutely hell if it’s not.
If you’re the maid of honour or a bridesmaid and have been given the task of organising the hens night, there’s a few things to keep in mind when you start planning.
Pick a budget that suits most people, no point choosing a weekend away at a 5 star hotel if no one can actually afford to share in the celebration. Remember you do not have to foot the bill for the whole affair, work out how much each person has to pay and stick to that, most guests will be happy to chip in for the event to honour the bride.
Make sure you ask the bride what she wants to do. It’s quite risky to guess and just surprise her. Your idea and her idea may be way off, and you really want the bride to enjoy herself.
Check with her about what she’s happy to have happen at the event. You don’t want to be buying penis shaped necklaces if the idea absolutely makes her cringe. Check if she is happy with a prop for the evening, to distinguish her as the hen, she may not want to wear a veil and sash, but may be happy with something more tasteful like a tiara. Remember it’s her hen’s night, you need to make sure she has a great night.
There’s a ton of ideas for things to do
- Weekend away, could be a 5 star hotel or a camping trip
- Spa day, choose her favourite spa, and book everyone in for some pampering. There are even mobile spa’s who come to your home.
- Wine Tasting/Wine trail, if you live in an area where you can visit more than one vineyard, you could make a day of it, and have a lunch at a vineyard restaurant.
- Cocktail party, hire a bartender for the night to make different cocktails. A great chance for everyone to dress up and pretend to be in “Sex in the City”.
- Dance lesson, maybe a salsa class, or belly dancing or burlesque or pole dancing.
- Sex toy party, get your giggle on, and maybe stock the bride up for the honeymoon.
- Hire a private chef and host a black tie dinner party.
- Vintage High Tea, you can book into some restaurants for this or organise it at home, think vintage china, cucumber sandwiches, mini cakes.
- Paintball, skydiving, bungy jumping for the more adventurous bride.
- Pottery/ceramic painting. There are venues where you can go,have a lesson and make your own pottery and/or paint some ceramic and they fire it for you to pick up at a later date.
- Hire a room/suite at a 5 star hotel for the night, and go out for a night on the town, then all stay the night together, kind of like a flash pajama party.
A hen’s night is about the bride coming together with her female friends to celebrate the transition from single to married, it is a chance to reflect on your relationships and for a bride’s friends to support her at this special time.